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Archive for February, 2009

The Cool Guy

angel on Feb-20-2009

There’s this guy in the gym who’s so gorgeous I usually use him as a motivation to not skip workout. Haha. He is so cool, he goes in with his laid back swagger, his hair tousled messily, wearing a nice T-shirt and faded jeans, with his hip watch that I’m sure is the latest model of Victorinox Swiss Army watches. And he has such a sexy smile too. One amazing package. Hehe. So when I’m slaving away on the treadmill, he comes to my side and asks me if I’m new in the gym. I said yes, and well… let’s just say I’m motivated to go to the gym as much as possible because of him. ;)

Life Insurance Quote

angel on Feb-20-2009

There were a bunch of people who visited our office today. They were people from an insurance company. They spent a good 30 minutes explaining to us the importance of life insurance and how we will all benefit if we apply. I listened and I think it’s a wise thing to do actually. Especially nowadays when money is so tight, we need to set aside a few for our very own life insurance. We never know what’s going to happen to us, and it’s great to be prepared all the time. This one nice lady came to me and gave me a life insurance quote. I am actually really thinking about it seriously. There’s some wisdom in obtaining a life insurance.

Mind Power

angel on Feb-19-2009

mind-power.jpgLately, I’m starting to feel the confidence creeping up on me slowly day by day. I’m starting to learn to love myself again. For so long, I’ve set myself aside, never really caring that much about my needs. I’ve focused on other people more, it’s like my whole world revolved around them. No wonder my happiness depended on them. But not anymore.

I’m starting to trust myself more again. I’m beginning to acknowledge my needs and fulfill my once neglected desires. It’s a wonderful feeling when you’re learning to care for yourself again. It’s never healthy to put yourself aside all the time just to please other people. If you make the decision to love yourself, everything else will fall into place.

Recently, I’ve also started to learn how to be more optimistic. It’s not easy, mind you. It takes a whole lot of will power and conviction. But one important thing that I realized, it’s no use worrying over everything that’s happening in our lives. If we surrender to a higher power, and just trust that everything is happening the way it is intended to, we will feel less stressed. I believe that the mind is very powerful. It is responsible for our actions and the way we see things. We can choose to be happy or sad. We can choose to look at the bright side or the dark side. It’s all in the mind.

Copyright©2009angel

Kids With Disabilities

angel on Feb-18-2009

I was reading this magazine the other day, and I read about kids with mental and physical disorders. It was really heartbreaking. There was this kid with cerebral palsy who couldn’t walk and a kid with autism who wasn’t interacting at all. It was sad to see those kids. They’re so young and innocent, and trying their hardest to have a normal life despite their disabilities. It’s saddening and inspiring at the same time. Seeing those kids will make you appreciate life more. My heart goes out to them.

Finest Love Duets

angel on Feb-13-2009

Since it’s Valentine’s day tomorrow… let’s set the mood with some love duets. Like I said, music and love goes hand in hand, for me. So romantic duets are really great for that loving mood. I’ve compiled a few of the finest love duets I find really beautiful and I’d like to share them with you guys. I didn’t include modern love duets. This list is just for duets that have withstood time and are timeless in my opinion. I love these tracks. They celebrate love just like any other love songs but they’re different in the sense that there’s a female and a male bringing life to the songs. Lovers. Although I’m not really too big on Valentine’s day (I think some people just use it as an excuse to show love, when everyday they should be showing love regardless.) But for most, it’s just a romantic day to celebrate, especially with a special someone, so enjoy these songs and have a happy Valentine’s day everyone! :)

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Valentine’s Day For Singles

angel on Feb-11-2009

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching… and for happy couples, it certainly is a day to look forward to. But what if you’re single, brokenhearted, or alone during Valentine’s day? Are you looking forward to celebrate the day as well?

Take a look around. You see all these couples together… holding hands, having fun, and looking so in love… It’s perfectly normal to feel sad, because let’s face it… Valentine’s day does really feel like this HUGE NEON LOVE sign that seems to sneer at you, taunting you. And you can’t help but wish… if only you had that special someone that you could kiss and cuddle with… then you would have a reason to celebrate the occasion.

Aahhh.. love is in the air. But if you’re reading this, and you’re single… don’t lose heart, light that face up, and don’t feel too sorry for yourself. Valentine’s Day is a day of love and romance, but that doesn’t mean that you don’t deserve to make the day fun and memorable for you. I think singles have as much right to celebrate Valentine’s as do couples, right?

There are a lot of things you can do to get through the day. Treat yourself to something good. You don’t need a lover to make you happy, and you know it. It’s probably easier said than done, but hey… you can do it! Here are just a few tips to get you started: Go to a spa, pamper yourself to a day of rest and relaxation. Gather your single friends and go out for drinks, or do something fun, like dancing. Work out in the gym. Go malling or shopping. If you don’t want to be alone during the night, invite friends over and you can have your very own little party. The point is to have a good time, and not feel sorry for yourself just because you happen to be unattached at the moment. Do that, and February 14 shouldn’t be such a dreadful day.

Honestly, Valentine’s Day is really no different from any other day, it’s a holiday created by Hallmark for crying out loud! So don’t beat yourself up if you happen to be dateless. Think positive and be happy! You owe it to yourself.

Copyright©2009angel

Love At The Crossroads

angel on Feb-6-2009

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Have you ever been in a relationship that’s so great in the beginning… conversations are smooth sailing, you understand each other so well, it’s almost like you’re on the same wavelength, you are patient with each other’s flaws and quirks, tense moments are almost always turned sweet… just to wake up one day and you notice everything just turned bad. All of a sudden conversations are hard to decipher, the most understanding person became a walking time-bomb ready to explode any second with just one wrong move, somehow you are now irritated and aggravated with each other’s quirks, patience has turned into short tempers, and moments together seem to be hard work? What went wrong here?

Welcome to the real world. Relationships can turn sour at any time, if you’re not careful. Sometimes, even though you’re very careful, everything still takes a nosedive and plunges your relationship into uncertainty. What does that mean, anyway? Does that mean you’re not as compatible as you think? How could things turn around so fast like that? At what point in the relationship did it happen? You have no clue and you’re struggling to figure out the reason why things are not going so smoothly anymore.

Some couples go through this and figure it out just in time to try to save their relationship. Others are not so lucky. Maybe this is just fate’s way of testing us in our relationships. How much adversity can you actually endure? How many fights and misunderstandings can you overcome? And after all that, will you still choose to be together? Or will you accept the fact that you’ve outgrown each other, acknowledge that you’ve grown apart from each other and simply just walk away?

Copyright©2009angel

The Perfect Sports Gift

angel on Feb-5-2009

Do you love sports? Me, I do like watching them, but I really don’t play any sport at all. I’m just not the sporty type. Sports don’t seem to like me for some reason. Anyway, a lot of my friends are into sports big time, and there’s this one friend who’s going to have his birthday in a week and I’m wondering what I should give him. Of course, it has to be related to sports so he would appreciate it more. He likes soccer and I’ve been through a lot of stores which sell sports gifts but i just don’t know what to pick! Do you guys have any good gift in mind? I’m open to suggestions.

The Scorpio Personality

angel on Feb-3-2009

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(Note: I’ve always been fascinated with the zodiac. I don’t believe in horoscopes but I do believe in the profiles of the zodiac. Each sun sign has their own characteristics described and in my experience, most of it is pretty much accurate. Try to test it in the people you know, ask their zodiac sign and read about their profile, and see for yourself if it’s accurate. Better yet, read about your own sign, and see if most of what it says is you. I’m not talking about the numerous commercial profiles, forwarded mass emails, zodiac posters that offer very shallow and heavily edited descriptions of the signs. Grab a published book written by an expert about zodiac signs and try to read it. You’ll be surprised at what you’ll learn. Of course, every person is different. Some exhibit qualities from other signs too. At the very least, the zodiac profile serves as a general guide. I’m a Scorpio, and although some of the traits about Scorpios are not really me, most of it is DEAD ON.)

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Scorpio is the eighth Sign of the Zodiac, and you shouldn’t take that lightly. You shouldn’t take Scorpios lightly, either. Those born under this Sign are dead serious in their mission to learn about others. There’s no fluff or chatter for Scorpios, either: these folks will zero in on the essential questions, gleaning the secrets that lie within. The curiosity of Scorpios is immeasurable, which may be why they are such adept investigators. These folks love to probe and know how to get to the bottom of things. The fact that they have a keen sense of intuition certainly helps.

Scorpios are known for their intensity. They are a determined folk that absolutely throw themselves into whatever they do — but getting them to commit to something is rarely an easy task. These folks are intense, passionate and filled with desire. They’re also complex and secretive, so don’t expect to get much out of them, lest they become suspicious and exit stage left. It’s best not to bet against Scorpios, either, since these folks are surprisingly resourceful.

Secretive and Intuitive

Most Scorpios are highly intuitive, which can make them either very compassionate and empathic or very cruel and vindictive, because they know where other people’s weak points are. Scorpios like to explore the profound in life and have little interest in small talk.

Scorpios are secretive, yet other people tend to tell them their own secrets. This often puts Scorpio in the role of counselor. Scorpios are excellent judges of character, and they have an incredible amount of sympathy for those who truly deserve it, but no sympathy or patience for whiners and people who are the authors of their own misfortune.

Self-Sacrificing

It’s the Scorpion which symbolizes Scorpios, and it’s no accident. Much like the Scorpion would rather kill itself than be killed, those born under this Sign are the ones who are in ultimate control of their destiny. Toward those for whom they have sympathy, Scorpios are fiercely protective, compassionate and self-sacrificing. They will risk their lives unthinkingly to protect those they care about. When Scorpios have an altruistic ascendant such as Aries or Leo, the combination of self-sacrifice and courage may draw them to make a career in one of the rescuing professions, such as police officer, fireman, coast guard or paramedic.

Magnetic and Seductive

Scorpios often have piercing eyes and a powerful gaze. Their personalities are seductive. People tend to find them interesting because they reveal little but are usually very deep. They are slow to trust new people, and it takes a long time for them to reveal just a few of their secrets.

Strength in the Face of Adversity

Scorpios can tolerate a lot of hardship and they can manage under the worst of conditions. These folks have tremendous regenerative powers, much like the literal Scorpion can lose its tail and promptly grow a new one. They are good at overcoming obstacles and turning change and challenge to their advantage, which is useful because Scorpios tend to attract sudden changes and endure more than their fair share of hardship. They are extremely persistent, and will go after what they want with a fierce determination that is often rewarded. They are survivors, and adversity only makes them stronger.

Scorpios simply never give up. They have tremendous staying power. In fact, talk to any Scorpio about their lives, and you’ll probably be in awe at all they’ve gone through. Trauma seems to follow them wherever they go. When Scorpio learns optimism, instead of expecting the worst, they’ll find that they possess amazing regenerative powers — the power to heal, create, and transform.

Discovering Likes

angel on Feb-2-2009

A friend of mine in the US called me up one night and talked about this boy she had been seeing for the past 2 weeks now. She filled me in on their latest date and as usual, as the good friend that I am, I listened patiently. Apparently, the guy was able to score 2 New York Yankees tickets and he was taking my friend to see the game. Although she’s not really a fan of football, she agreed of course. You know how it is when we like someone, we tend to pretend we like something they like right? And although initially, we don’t really “get” it, sometimes we’ll also realize that it’s not bad after all. And after some time, we even actually learn to like it too. How many of you guys actually know what I’m talking about here?