Which do you think is the more selfish sex, male or female? What about the more sensitive and understanding sex? Men are viewed as tough on the outside, while women are viewed to be more sensitive and emotional.

Have you read the book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus? It’s a great, informative book that discusses the individual differences between men and women, and it gives concrete examples about the way we each deal with things. Women think men are selfish because all they think about is themselves, work and other guy stuff. But according to the book, men are just wired this way. We all have different fulfillment desires, men and women differ with regards to this. But just because we need different things doesn’t mean we can’t meet halfway and reach some kind of compromise.

If women knew the drives of men and the fulfillment they need, then it would be easier to understand them. In the same way, if men knew and understood the ways of a woman’s mind and her drives, it would be easier to deal with them. The key is to know what each sex needs and wants.

It’s pretty unfair for both sexes to put the blame on each other when we don’t even understand ourselves in the first place. It’s easy to say, “My man is so selfish, all he does is work and he doesn’t have time for me.” But if you understand that “feeling successful” is one of the basic needs of men, then you’ll know how to deal with it. The same with women… if guys knew what drives a woman to be emotional, and what goes on with their roller coaster of emotions, they’ll be more understanding and sympathetic, and the world will be a much nicer and better place. Read the book guys, it’s really helpful.

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