Have you ever dated someone and felt very much attracted to him, and then later you found out he was one of the “bad boys”, but you still can’t stop seeing him? Or is there a nice guy in your life that is a real boyfriend material, but you find that you’re just not attracted to him?

Sometimes women have this recurring tendency to pick the “wrong” guys and then go through the tiring process of loving, getting hurt, realizing he’s not the one, breaking up, moving on… then they meet another guy, and goes through the same process again. Have you ever wondered why women often are more attracted to “bad boys” rather than good guys that they can take home to their parents? I’m not saying this is always the case because there are women out there too who are more attracted to nice guys. But just for the sake of discussion, why is it that bad guys are usually more attractive to women than their nicer counterparts? Is it because they have an “element of danger” which women are drawn to? Or maybe women just find that they have a more powerful connection with a “bad boy”? Or perhaps they’re just looking for spontaneity in a relationship, with some playfulness and fun, and they know they can have these with bad boys?

Regardless of what it is that women find in “wrong guys”… I think everyone would blame it on a UNIVERSAL thing called CONNECTION. A magical connection with a man is very powerful and can sometimes even make women do things that they would regret doing in the end. And often, when a woman is hopelessly caught up in this attraction, all reasoning abilities are thrown out the window. There are many books out there that attempts to explain this phenomenon of choosing the wrong guys, but I won’t dwell on it anymore here. I just might get a migraine.

But while we’re on the topic, which type of guy would rather go out with, nice guys or bad boys… share your ideas!

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