Love Always Finds A Way
Love will always find a way. You can’t force it, you can’t control it. You can do things or create ways to manipulate it for your own desires, but it will always find its real home, one way or another.
If someone doesn’t love you, you cannot force him to stay with you. You can bribe him, you can blackmail him, but would that really make you happy? Can you really be happy in a relationship that only exists because of responsibility and guilt? What happened to true love? Would you really allow yourself to settle for a relationship that you know is not working anymore? IF someone made it clear that he doesn’t love you anymore, you can’t force him to change his mind. You can’t manipulate situations or people just to have him back. If he wants to go, would it be fair to stop him, even though you know he’s not happy with you anymore? Wouldn’t it be better to set him free, and set yourself free too?
We can never force love. Whether we want to or not, it will run its own course. It can grow, but it can die too. And when that happens, we need to accept it as it is. Love is complicated, but it is beautiful that way. It cannot be explained really, it just IS. So don’t fight it. Don’t manipulate it or force it. You won’t win.
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Excellent !! I wish my sister would have realized this a couple of years ago. Her husband no longer loved her. She searched and searched for the answer. She is finally realizing she will never have his love back, no matter how hard she tried to force it. She is starting a new life finally. I know it isn’t easy especially after 2 kids and 27 years of marriage. Women are strong, they can survive. She has the support of me and my parents. We have spent hours and hours on the phone with her, helping her through. Thanks for your blog, you said it well.
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