Love Questions
There was this guy who loved two girls at the same time but he didn’t know which one he loved more. Someone taught him.
Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :
“When you are happy, which girl would you want to share your happiness with?” The one you think of is someone you love.
Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :
“When you are sad, which girl you want to share your burden with?” The one you think of is also someone you love.
If you think of the same girl when you are happy and sad, that’s the most perfect. But if you don’t think of the same girl, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that you meet that you can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover. If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close and an understanding person to you.
But it shouldn’t stop there. If that person only thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for someone else when she is sad, this lover is too unstable, she doesn’t treat you as someone she can spend the rest of her life with.
If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?
You’re right. We meet many people that we can share our happiness and sorrows with. Some of the meetings are only passing and others last a lifetime. But I do know that people have to learn to enjoy being happy or cope with being sad on their own. We can’t depend on others to validate our feelings. People aren’t perfect. They might let us down and it’s not their fault. We need to feel complete without others before we can truly cherish their company.
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