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The Dance Of Life

angel on Jul-20-2007

11469.jpg When we truly love someone, we give out best and let that person see the pureness of our intention. But sometimes that person makes us cry and hurts us for the wrong reason. That someone must have loved us but he has not loved us enough to make him stand for what he truly felt.

Now we are faced with the seemingly impossible task of forgetting. We have burdened ourselves long enough but we still can’t get out of this emotional trap. Let us remember that the more we try to forget someone we love, the more painful letting go will become.

Sometimes we never had to take that person out of our hearts at all, for he will always be there no matter how hard we try to drive him away. It isn’t his presence that makes this difficult. It is our stubbornness to accept our destiny that aligns forgetting next to impossible. We keep a cold face but deep in our hearts, there is still that lingering hope for reconciliation. Somehow, we still believe that we can rekindle small embers and relight the fire that once burned in our hearts. These thoughts give us hope but it also breeds the seeds of loneliness and despair.

The only way to forget is to accept and the only way to move on is to look ahead and let the footprints of the past be blown by the wind of time. Only then can our hearts find a partner in the dance of life and hopefully never get lost again.

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  1. Jeanette said,

    You are absolutely right. I’ve now moved 300 miles (long way in Denmark) away from my ex. He’s with a new girl, the one he cheated on me with. We used to live together, had everything. He was my one and only. Now I have everything I want. New life, with my best friends who has moved along. My career is developing wonderful and I’ve met a wonderful guy who I know will treat me as I deserve. But yet everyday I feel like calling him to see if he has changed his mind… if he still loves me, thinks of me etc. I miss him so much, and can’t get him out of my mind. He lives with the new girl now. I assume he’s in love with her, and that makes me feel like I was just one in the row of his romances in life, where in my heart, he was my everything. Everytime I have to go back home to visit friends and family, I can’t help wanting to meet up with him, though we don’t. I don’t have any contact with him at all, but my heart aches! My friends has done everything possible, I have done everything… and now a year has gone by. I try so hard to keep my mind occupied with other things, but I can’t help thinking of him. I know he did bad things, that he’s no good for me anyway and that he does not deserve me, but I feel like I lost a part of myself that nobody can fulfill but him! Do you have any advice for me? It makes me very depressed sometimes because I feel so helpless, restless, confused and just questioning if we will ever get back together!

    I love your site…. you are one of the few people in the world that really has the compassion needed for the rest of us to not feel alone. THANK YOU!! :) Have a wonderful day… and God Bless You!!

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